Thursday, September 07, 2006

How Marriage Works (婚姻方程式 )

How Marriage Works婚姻方程式
by
李順長

If you want to feel loved and respected, give up control.
如果你想要被愛和被尊重,放棄控制吧!
For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that al;ways returns.
在愛的天地裡,「輸」就是給了對方一份禮物,你必得著回報。
If you want to win arguments at home, learn to lose them.
你想在家裡贏得辯論,學習「輸」吧。
When you win a battle and your spouse submits, you have , paradoxically, lost.
當你贏得一場爭執,你的配偶屈服了,事實上,相反地,你是大輸特輸。